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><channel><title>The Invisible Mentor &#187; Mark Twain</title> <atom:link href="http://theinvisiblementor.com/tag/mark-twain/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://theinvisiblementor.com</link> <description>The Non-Traditional Mentoring Program: Knowledge, Understanding and Wisdom</description> <lastBuildDate>Sat, 11 Feb 2012 13:13:53 +0000</lastBuildDate> <language>en</language> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator> <atom:link rel="hub" href="http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com"/><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://superfeedr.com/hubbub"/> <item><title>21 Quotes to Inspire you in 2012</title><link>http://theinvisiblementor.com/2012/01/06/21-quotes-to-inspire-you-in-2012/</link> <comments>http://theinvisiblementor.com/2012/01/06/21-quotes-to-inspire-you-in-2012/#comments</comments> <pubDate>Fri, 06 Jan 2012 10:30:36 +0000</pubDate> <dc:creator>Avil Beckford</dc:creator> <category><![CDATA[Professional Development]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Quotes]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Self-improvement]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Erich Fromm]]></category> <category><![CDATA[John Gardner]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Khalil Gibran]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Mark Twain]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Martin Luther King]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Oliver Campbell]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Seaton McLean]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Simon Grant]]></category> <category><![CDATA[Willa Cather]]></category><guid
isPermaLink="false">http://theinvisiblementor.com/?p=9180</guid> <description><![CDATA[I love a good quote because it makes me think. I have been collecting quotes for several years now, but a few years ago it struck me that because I read so much, I should be extracting quotes from the books I read. Below are 21 quotes that I like and some of them I [...]
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class="topsy_widget_data topsy_theme_blue" style="float: right;margin-left: 0.75em; background: url(data:,%7B%20%22url%22%3A%20%22http%253A%252F%252Ftheinvisiblementor.com%252F2012%252F01%252F06%252F21-quotes-to-inspire-you-in-2012%252F%22%2C%20%22style%22%3A%20%22big%22%2C%20%22title%22%3A%20%2221%20Quotes%20to%20Inspire%20you%20in%202012%22%20%7D);"></div><p><a
href="http://theinvisiblementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/Books-for-Mentoring-12.jpg"><img
class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-9094" title="Books for Mentoring-1" src="http://theinvisiblementor.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/Books-for-Mentoring-12-150x150.jpg" alt="favorite quote, favourite quotation, best quotes" width="150" height="150" /></a>I love a good quote because it makes me think. I have been collecting quotes for several years now, but a few years ago it struck me that because I read so much, I should be extracting quotes from the books I read. Below are 21 quotes that I like and some of them I pulled directly from books I read, so the only place you’ll see them is if you read the books they came from.</p><ol
start="1"><li>“Within each successful person is an ordinary person who found the courage to act – to face the big challenges and make their dreams come true.” Jinny S. Ditzler, <em>Your Best Year Yet!</em></li><li>“No matter what you want in life, you can get it by building rapport. If you can fill the needs of the people who have what you want, bingo – they’ll fill your needs as well. Rapport building works in sales, public relations, and life itself.” Steven Cody &amp; Richard Harte, <em>What’s Keeping Your Customers Up At Night?</em></li><li>“… All dreams are meaningful and significant. Meaningful, because they contain a message which can be understood if one has the key for its translation. Significant, because we do not dream of anything that is trifling, even though it may be expressed in a language which hides the significance of the dream message behind a trifling façade.” <a
class="zem_slink" title="Erich Fromm" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Erich_Fromm" rel="wikipedia">Erich Fromm</a>, <em>The Forgotten Language</em></li><li>“If one has both knowledge and wisdom, the lamp illuminates even the darkest night.” Chao-Hsiu Chen<em>, The Master</em></li><li>“Being on the way requires a move forward and sometimes a step of faith into the unknown.” Kavula John, <em>Light For Our Path 2007</em></li><li>“One big difference between those who truly succeed in making things happen and the ones who don’t: Those who do, act.” Jinny S. Ditzler, <em>Your Best Year Yet!</em></li><li>“Thoughts, feelings and actions are essential to closing a sale, or being successful in public relations, shepherding, bricklaying, you name it. How we think, feel and act will determine everything else.” Steven Cody &amp; Richard Harte, <em>What’s Keeping Your Customers Up At Night?</em></li><li>“For what are your possessions but things you keep and guard for fear you might need them tomorrow? And tomorrow, what shall tomorrow bring to the over-prudent dog burying bones in the trackless sand as he follows the pilgrims to the holy city?” <a
class="zem_slink" title="Khalil Gibran" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Khalil_Gibran" rel="wikipedia">Kahlil Gibran</a>, <em>The Prophet</em></li><li>“We are all caught in an inescapable network of mutuality, tied into a single garment of destiny, whatever affects one directly, affect all indirectly.” <a
class="zem_slink" title="Martin Luther King, Jr." href="http://www.answers.com/topic/martin-luther-king-jr#Gale_Contemporary_Black_Biography_d" rel="answerscom">Martin Luther King</a></li><li>“As a manager it is extremely important to work hard at uncovering the facts involved in whatever the problem or situation he [or she] faces, and based on those facts, to make the appropriate decision. One must draw a balance, however, between fact-finding and decision-making.” John Gardner</li><li>“It’s important to understand what’s in people’s minds, and separate it from what they are actually saying and discussing with their peers.” Arunas Chesonis</li><li>“Worrying about something is like paying interest on a debt you don’t even know if you owe.”  <a
class="zem_slink" title="Mark Twain" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Twain" rel="wikipedia">Mark Twain</a></li><li>“It’s easy to focus on what you think is important, but it’s always about the other person, and their needs, and this takes you down the right strategic path.” Peter Bouffard</li><li>“I do not have to do anything extraordinary. All I need to do is wake up and see what’s been here waiting for me all the time. It’s already here and all is well.” Maria Nemeth</li><li>“If you focus on the goals, you will make your bosses happy, but you sell yourself short – life, love, and work are all a series of journeys. Goals happen, are temporary and then are gone and leave emptiness.” Simon Grant</li><li>“Recognize the divergence between what you as a professional view as your ethical standard, and what some clients see as merely a stance that is variable on request.” Oliver Campbell</li><li>“Don’t be afraid to show your vulnerability and ask for help. If your intention is clear and honest, people will rally around you and unify toward a common goal.” Nanci Govinder</li><li>“As long as you are honest you can resolve 99 percent of all situations amicably and without regret.” Seaton McLean</li><li>“If you don’t throw up your hands when things go wrong, but think it isn’t over and that you still have a chance, anything is possible.” Claire Hoy</li><li>“Labour for learning before you grow old, for learning is better than silver and gold. Silver and gold will vanish away, but a good education will never decay.” Popular Jamaican Saying</li><li>“Miracles rest not so much upon healing power coming suddenly near us from afar, but upon our perceptions being made finer, so that for the moment our eyes can see and our ears can hear what has been there around us always.” <a
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class="topsy_widget_data topsy_theme_blue" style="float: right;margin-left: 0.75em; background: url(data:,%7B%20%22url%22%3A%20%22http%253A%252F%252Ftheinvisiblementor.com%252F2011%252F12%252F13%252Fbooked-on-tuesdays-musings-of-a-book-addict-and-the-most-impactful-book-for-2011-is%252F%22%2C%20%22style%22%3A%20%22big%22%2C%20%22title%22%3A%20%22Booked%20for%20Mentoring%3A%20Musings%20of%20a%20Book%20Addict%20-%20and%20the%20Most%20Impactful%20Book%20for%202011%20Is....%22%20%7D);"></div><p>I have read a lot of really good books this year (<a
href="http://theinvisiblementor.com/2011/12/09/2011-books-for-mentoring/" target="_blank">2011 Books for Mentoring</a>), and because I am at active reader, I always learn at least one thing from the books that I read. This is the time of year when you find the various lists for the best books of the year. I already gave you the list of some of the books that I have thoroughly enjoyed. But, I have also been thinking about which book was most impactful and practical for me.</p><p>And the winner is…</p><p>Drum roll please!</p><div
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href="http://theinvisiblementor.com/2011/07/26/booked-on-tuesdays-review-how-to-read-literature-like-a-professor-by-thomas-c-foster/" target="_blank"><strong><em>How to Read <strong><em>Literature </em></strong>Like  Professor</em></strong> </a>by Thomas Foster. When I first started to read <strong><em>How to Read <strong><em>Literature </em></strong>Like a Professor</em></strong>, I thought it was going to be very boring and academic, but I was pleasantly surprised. The book is essentially a guide on how to read to get the most from what you are reading. Foster recommends that while you are reading to constantly ask yourself, “Where have I seen this before?” And you should also question what you are reading in the text. Since reading <strong><em>How to Read <strong><em>Literature </em></strong>Like a Professor</em></strong>, I now read very differently. And I pay even more attention than I usually do while reading.</p><p>Additionally, I ask more questions about the significance of events occurring in the book. If a character has a heart ailment, I ask myself why the author allowed that to happen. If there is water in a scene, I ponder about the significance, whether it’s a cleansing, or a rebirth and so on. Having read <strong><em><strong><em><a
href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/006000942X/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=ambeckenterpr-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=006000942X">How to Read Literature Like a Professor</a></em></strong></em></strong> I am a far more discerning reader, which deepens my understanding of the books I read.</p><p>Because of this new questioning while reading, I found out that The <a
title="The Hunger Games trilogy" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Hunger_Games_trilogy">Hunger Games Trilogy</a> was loosely based on the Greek myth of <a
title="Theseus" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Theseus">Theseus</a>. The protagonist, 16-year old <a
class="zem_slink" title="Katniss Everdeen" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Katniss_Everdeen" rel="wikipedia">Katniss Everdeen</a> is viewed as a modern day Theseus.</p><p>And another unexpected benefit occurred during the summer while I was researching and writing many Profiles in Wisdom. Another question I have been asking myself as a result of having read <strong><em><strong><em><a
href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/006000942X/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=ambeckenterpr-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=006000942X">How to Read Literature Like a Professor</a></em></strong></em></strong> is where have I heard of this person before?</p><p>For instance, <a
title="Ada Lovelace" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ada_Lovelace">Ada Lovelace</a> was the first computer programmer and she worked with <a
title="Charles Babbage" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Charles_Babbage">Charles Babbage</a> the father of computers. Lovelace was the daughter of <a
title="Lord Byron" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lord_Byron">Lord Byron</a> and <a
title="Anne Isabella Byron, Baroness Byron" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anne_Isabella_Byron%2C_Baroness_Byron">Lady Byron</a>. Lady Byron was an abolitionist who became great friends with <a
title="Harriet Beecher Stowe" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harriet_Beecher_Stowe">Harriet Beecher Stowe</a>, the author of <strong><em>Uncle Tom&#8217;s Cabin</em></strong>. At one point in her life, <a
class="zem_slink" title="Mark Twain" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Twain" rel="wikipedia">Samuel Clemens</a> (Mark Twain) was her neighbour. Beecher Stowe met with Abraham Lincoln who remarked, “So this is the little woman who wrote the book that made this big war,” in reference to the American Civil War. Through Charles Babbage, Ada Lovelace met <a
class="zem_slink" title="Mary Somerville" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mary_Somerville" rel="wikipedia">Mary Fairfax Somerville</a> who became one of her mentors. Mary Somerville was also one of the people who American astronomer Maria Mitchell had letters of introduction to when she visited Europe. Lord Byron made several references to Sappho, one of the greatest female poets who ever lived.</p><p>It’s uncanny how many connections were among the people who I researched, and it wasn’t planned on my part – it just happened – and it strengthened my knowledge on the people who I profiled. As I upload the many profiles I have already written, you will see the many connections for yourself. That&#8217;s what reading <strong><em><strong><em><strong><em><a
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class="topsy_widget_data topsy_theme_blue" style="float: right;margin-left: 0.75em; background: url(data:,%7B%20%22url%22%3A%20%22http%253A%252F%252Ftheinvisiblementor.com%252F2011%252F11%252F18%252Fthe-invisible-mentor-interviews-steve-kayser-head-of-pr-cincom-systems-part-two%252F%22%2C%20%22style%22%3A%20%22big%22%2C%20%22title%22%3A%20%22Interview%20With%20Invisible%20Mentor%20Steve%20Kayser%2C%20Head%20of%20PR%2C%20Cincom%20Systems%2C%20Part%20Two%22%20%7D);"></div><p><strong>Interviewee Name</strong>: Steve Kayser</p><p><strong>Company Name</strong>: <a
class="zem_slink" title="Cincom" href="http://www.cincom.com" rel="homepage">Cincom</a> Systems</p><p><strong>Website</strong>: <a
href="http://www.cincom.com/">http://www.cincom.com/</a>, <a
href="http://expertaccess.cincom.com/">http://expertaccess.cincom.com</a>, <a
href="http://radio.cincom.com/">http://radio.cincom.com</a><strong> </strong></p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: Tell me a little bit about yourself.</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:  A non-PR, non marketing, non-writer type running a national PR department for Cincom Systems, a global software company.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: Tell me about your big break and who gave you.</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>: Just one? I have had big breaks all my life. Every day. Every month. Every year.</p><p>Tom Nies gave me my latest big break. He asked me to run PR for Cincom Systems North America. When I told him I didn’t know anything about PR he said, “Read this book – you’ll be fine.” The book he gave me was <strong><em><a
href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060081996/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=ambeckenterpr-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=0060081996">The Fall of Advertising and the Rise of PR</a></em></strong>, by Al Ries. I read it. Then called Al Ries. Explained my situation and asked his advice and also asked him to contribute to a fledgling online E-Zine I was developing called Expert Access. He did become a contributor and we went from 5,000 subscribers to 25,000 in about 1 month because of it. Al Ries (and his daughter Laura Ries) have done several interviews and articles with me &#8230; And,  Al Ries was also one of the first guests we had on Expert Access Radio — http://radio.cincom.com.</p><p>One of the lessons I took from that — People at the top value great thinking. They pass it on. If you take advantage of their thinking (in this instance Al Ries’ book) it can change everything for you. But you have to teach yourself – learn yourself. No handholding allowed.</p><p>It’s the biggest thing I would look for in new employees or partners now. Are they autodidacts? Can they teach themselves new things – continuously?</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: What’s one of the toughest decisions you’ve had to make and how did it impact your life?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:  Having a baby in my 50’s. It was tough. Greatest thing that ever happened to me. Joy – Grace &#8211; Love. Beauty. All rolled up into one.  (I have 5 kids. Oldest son is a lawyer getting ready for the FBI. Youngest son is in Japan teaching English. My oldest daughter is a freshman at Ohio State. Then I have an 11 year old and a 1 autodidacts old.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: What are three events that helped to shape your life?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:</p><p>hahaha —</p><ol
start="1"><li>Being born. Seriously. What magic. Why me? Why you? Why here? Why now?</li><li>Being an MP in the Military  overseas- ( discipline/focus/)</li><li>That business failure mentioned above.</li></ol><p><strong>Avil Beckford: What’s an accomplishment that you are proudest of?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:  Haven’t done them yet. I am immensely proud of my kids’ success in life so far.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: How did mentors influence your life?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:  Wow – where to start. See above. Some of those guys were. But I also read 3 to 5 books a week and find great mentoring there.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: What’s one core message you received from your mentors?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>: CANEL – Continual and Never Ending Learning. Teach yourself. It’s the only way to reinvent yourself and stay relevant over time.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: An invisible mentor is a unique leader you can learn things from by observing them from afar, in the capacity of an Invisible Mentor, what is one piece of advice that you would give to readers?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:  Advice I stole from <a
class="zem_slink" title="John Wooden" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/John_Wooden" rel="wikipedia">John Wooden</a>. The two sets of 3.</p><p>Don’t Lie.  Don’t cheat. Don’t  Steal.</p><p>Don’t complain. Don’t Make excuses. Don’t Whine.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: How do you integrate your personal and professional life?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>: Now there’s a tough one. How do you do it? It’s hard. Everyone has their own means of doing that.  I try to disconnect. But it’s hard. However, having a new baby makes it much easier. Nothing like a stinky diaper to keep you in the here and now.<strong> </strong></p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: When you have some down time, how do you spend it?</strong><strong> </strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>: Playing piano. I play the piano bumpers for our radio shows. It’s a great stress reliever.</p><p>This one is called Enchantment -  there’s a  story behind it – comes from an interview I was doing with Guy Kawasaki&#8230;</p><p><a
href="http://www.writingriffs.com/2011/03/22/one-take-on-enchantment/">http://www.writingriffs.com/2011/03/22/one-take-on-enchantment/</a></p><p>The music is at the bottom – 36 seconds.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: What are five life lessons that you have learned so far?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:</p><ol
start="1"><li>Don’t Lie.</li><li>Don’t cheat.</li><li>Don’t  Steal.</li><li>Don’t complain.</li><li>Don’t Make excuses.</li><li>Don’t Whine.</li></ol><p>That’s 6. Sorta like a baker’s 1/2 dozen.</p><p>[<strong>Note from Avil</strong>] For those who English is a second language, a baker’s dozen is 13.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: What process do you use to generate great ideas?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>: I find Vodka to be a great creative idea generator. But those ideas never seem to pan out so well.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: What’s your favourite quotation and why?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>: It’s a tie.</p><ul><li>“This is so simple a child of 5 could figure it out. QUICK! Someone fetch a child of 5.”  <a
class="zem_slink" title="Groucho Marx" href="http://www.rottentomatoes.com/celebrity/groucho_marx" rel="rottentomatoes">Groucho Marx</a></li></ul><ul><li>“Few things are harder to put up with than the annoyance of a good example.”  Pudd’n Head Wilson (AKA <a
class="zem_slink" title="Mark Twain" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Twain" rel="wikipedia">Mark Twain</a>)</li></ul><p>They fit so many situations. How could they not be your favorites too?</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: How do you define success? And in your opinion what’s the formula for success?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>: Wow – this is getting to be an in-depth psychological profile – am I’m flunking?</p><p>Success: Loving, being loved, enjoying life — and breathing. Breathing has a lot to recommend itself. You never really appreciate breathing and oxygen till you don’t have it. I know.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: What are the steps you took to succeed in your field?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:</p><p>Stumbled. Staggered. Fell.  Those are kinda the steps.</p><p>No failures = no success</p><p>To succeed you have to fail at some time. No way around that I think.</p><p>Since I’ve literally reinvented myself 5 times during my life and am in the process of doing it again – I can only say what steps seem to be common in all of those endeavors:</p><p>A Joie de vivre  &#8211; a joy for living &amp; loving life, learning, re-learning. I need to throw a quote in here.</p><h1></h1><h1>“<strong>The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read and write, but those who cannot learn, unlearn, and relearn</strong>.”Alvin Toffler</h1><p>&nbsp;</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: What advice do you have for someone just starting out in your field?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>: See above quote. And never quit. Unless you die. And that might be just another opportunity to re-invent yourself.</p><p><strong>Avil Beckford: If trusted friends could introduce you to five people that you’ve always wanted to meet, who would you choose? And what would you say to them?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:</p><ol
start="1"><li><strong><a
href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Abraham_Lincoln" target="_blank">Abraham Lincoln</a></strong>: “And the War Came” &#8211; ask him about those four words in his second inauguration. The four most powerful words ever written.</li><li><strong><a
href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Twain" target="_blank">Mark Twain</a> (<strong>Samuel Langhorne Clemens</strong>)</strong>: Ask him about his daughter’s elegy – his most poignant words ever written.</li><li><strong><a
href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Oscar_Wilde" target="_blank">Oscar Wilde</a></strong>: Really? What did he think he was doing dying so early?</li><li><strong><a
href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nikola_Tesla" target="_blank">Nikola Tesla</a></strong>: Ask him where the diagrams/plans were for his wireless free energy. I know where most of them are. But I want it from him. And then I’d tell him “Nik — you should have married – and why weren’t you nicer to JP Morgan’s daughter?</li><li><strong><a
href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paul_McCartney" target="_blank">Paul McCartney</a></strong>: How about us doing a ragtime gig together?</li></ol><p><strong>Avil Beckford: Which one book had a profound impact on your life? What was it about this book that impacted you so deeply?</strong></p><p><strong>Steve Kayser</strong>:</p><ul><li><strong><em><a
href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0807014273/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=ambeckenterpr-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=0807014273">Man&#8217;s Search for Meaning</a><img
style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=ambeckenterpr-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0807014273&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369" alt="" width="1" height="1" border="0" />. Read it. Viktor Frankl.  It was originally to be published anonymously but his friends told him he should put his name on it. 60 million copies and years later &#8230; It still will shock the senses.</em></strong></li><li><strong><em><a
href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0446691437/ref=as_li_qf_sp_asin_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=ambeckenterpr-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=217145&amp;creative=399369&amp;creativeASIN=0446691437">The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles</a><img
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id="aptureLink_b0oPTTrAyX" style="float: right; padding: 0px 6px;" href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/chitrasudar/2721323275/"><img
style="border: 0px none;" title="Read OR Listen?" src="http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3227/2721323275_cb6ed75b42.jpg" alt="" width="294.86666666666673px" height="171.15000000000003px" /></a>Summer is the time when most get caught up on their reading. And most are reading novels during this time, but what if you did something a little differently from the rest. Gene Waddell, an architectural historian and College Archivist at the College of Charleston in Charleston, SC, pulled together an extensive list of rare books that inspire learning. I have taken 10 books from his list, and as you will note, they are from a variety genres to build your general knowledge and increase your ability to strategize and solve problems.</p><ol><li><em><a
href="http://www.archive.org/stream/anthropologyrace00kroe#page/n3/mode/2up">Anthropology: Race, Language, Psychology, Prehistory</a></em>, Kroeber</li><li><em>Antiquities of Athens</em> by James Stuart;  Nicholas Revett</li><li><em>Tomb of Tut-ankh-Amen: Discovered by the late Earl of Carnarvon and <a
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class="zem_slink" title="Roughing It (The World's Best Reading)" rel="amazon" href="http://www.amazon.com/Roughing-Worlds-Best-Reading-Twain/dp/0895776286%3FSubscriptionId%3D0G81C5DAZ03ZR9WH9X82%26tag%3Dambeckenterpr-20%26linkCode%3Dxm2%26camp%3D2025%26creative%3D165953%26creativeASIN%3D0895776286">Roughing It</a></em>, <a
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href="http://www.archive.org/details/newsystemofchemi01daltuoft">New System of Chemical Philosophy</a>, John Dalton</li><li><a
href="http://www.transcendentalists.com/emerson_essays.htm"><em>Emerson: Essays</em></a>, <a
class="zem_slink freebase/en/ralph_waldo_emerson" title="Ralph Waldo Emerson" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ralph_Waldo_Emerson">Ralph Waldo Emerson</a></li><li><a
href="http://www.ebooks.com/ebooks/book_display.asp?IID=238561"><em>Travels in the Interior Districts of Africa</em></a>, Mungo Park</li><li><a
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class="zem_slink freebase/en/wright_brothers" title="Wright brothers" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wright_brothers">Orville and Wilbur Wright</a> Century Magazine, September 1908</li></ol><p>Over the summer, try to read a couple of the above, and I will do the same. What do you have to add to the conversation? Let&#8217;s keep  the conversation  flowing, please let me know your thoughts      in the  comments section  below. Many readers read this blog from    other   sites, so  why don&#8217;t you  pop over to <a
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href="http://www.last.fm/music/Mark%2BTwain">Mark Twain</a> via <a
href="http://www.lastfm.com">last.fm</a></dd></dl></div></div><p>There are many lessons around us, if we but take the time to BE instead of DO. Many of these lessons we can learn from successful people, many who are further along the path that we are traveling, or have already completed the journey.</p><p>Have you ever wondered what makes a highly accomplished individual tick? I have! I have also wondered what motivates them and how they stay motivated. Over the past five years, I have interviewed over a hundred successful people, and one of the many questions that I ask them is &#8220;What is your favorite quotation and why?&#8221;</p><p>These individuals love a good quote, and they have that special one which resonates with them down to their core. They often use that quote for inspiration, and have it in plain sight where they can readily see it. One individual indicated that he has been using the same quote for inspiration for over 20 years. Quotes are very important to these people and serve many functions in their lives.</p><p>Over the years I have learned from these very successful interviewees, and I would like to share some of what I have learned with you. I have culled 10 powerful quotes, and have also included the reasons why they resonate with the interviewees.</p><p>After you have read the quotes, you will better understand these people, and I am sure you will agree that the quotes will also add a touch of brilliance to your communications.</p><p><strong>Stephanie Ma</strong><strong>c</strong><strong>Kendrick&#8217;s Favorite Quot</strong><strong>e </strong><strong>and Wh</strong>y</p><p>&#8220;Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.&#8221; Margaret Meade</p><p>The quote says that change can happen from every one of us, from small groups. It doesn&#8217;t have to be a big project, a big organization with a big mission or mandate. We can all contribute to changing.</p><p><strong>Maria Nemeth&#8217;s Favorite Quot</strong><strong>e</strong><strong> and Why</strong></p><p>&#8220;Miracles rest not so much upon healing power coming suddenly near us from afar, but upon our perceptions being made finer, so that for the moment our eyes can see and our ears can hear what has been there around us always.&#8221; <a
class="zem_slink" title="Willa Cather" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Willa_Cather">Willa Cather</a></p><p>It&#8217;s a wonderful quote about miracles. People think that miracles are things that happen to us suddenly from on high. I like this quote because it&#8217;s hopeful, it says that I do not have to do anything extraordinary. All I need to do is wake up and see what&#8217;s been here waiting for me all the time.</p><p><strong><a
class="zem_slink" title="Jim Rohn" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jim_Rohn">Jim Rohn</a>&#8216;s Favorite </strong><strong>Quote </strong><strong>and Why</strong></p><p>&#8220;Nothing can resist a human will that will stake even its existence on the extent of its purpose.&#8221; <a
class="zem_slink" title="Benjamin Disraeli" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Benjamin_Disraeli">Benjamin Disraeli</a></p><p>This quote challenges the human spirit to ultimate possibility &#8211; give it all you&#8217;ve got. Become all you were designed to become. It simply means do or die.</p><p><strong>Suzanne Gibson&#8217;s Favorite Quote</strong><strong> and Why</strong></p><p>&#8220;What stirs the mind or touches the heart, will undoubtedly move the feet.&#8221; Donald Murphy</p><p>I feel an affinity to the quote because I am overwhelmed by all that&#8217;s going on in the world, and I often wonder what I can do as one person. This quote tells me that if we can inspire others and feed their hearts and stimulate their minds we can motivate action for positive change.</p><p><strong>Gail Blanke&#8217;s Favorite Quote and Why</strong></p><p>&#8220;There is no way it is, there is only the way you say it is. The universe hasn&#8217;t made up its mind about you. It only knows what you show it today. You are the Inventor; your life is the invention. You get to make it up, so make it up good.&#8221; Gail Blanke, <em>Between Trapezes</em><a
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class="zem_slink" title="Mark Twain" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Twain">Mark Twain</a></p><p>&#8220;There are two things you need for success: courage and ignorance.&#8221; Gabriel Draven (Inspired by Mark Twain)</p><p>This modified quote has kept on coming back to me over the past couple of years, and it&#8217;s pretty dead on.</p><p><strong>Claire Hoy&#8217;s Favorite Quotes and Why</strong></p><p>&#8220;Worrying about something is like paying interest on a debt that you don&#8217;t even know if you owe.&#8221; Mark Twain</p><p>&#8220;It ain&#8217;t over till it&#8217;s over.&#8221; <a
class="zem_slink" title="Yogi Berra" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yogi_Berra">Yogi Berra</a></p><p>I view both quotes as great life lessons. In Mark Twain&#8217;s case he is saying that if you are going around and worrying and fretting how badly something is going to turn out, almost all the time it never turns out as badly as you perceived. In Berra&#8217;s case, if you don&#8217;t throw up your hands when things go wrong, but think it ain&#8217;t over and that you still have a chance, anything is possible.</p><p><strong>Amelia Kassel&#8217;s Favorite Quote and Why</strong></p><p>&#8220;There is nothing to fear but fear itself.&#8221; <a
class="zem_slink" title="Franklin D. Roosevelt" rel="wikipedia" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Franklin_D._Roosevelt">Franklin D. Roosevelt</a></p><p>It is so easy to feel fear when you are starting a business or taking risks. In life, you face many situations where it&#8217;s easy to feel fearful. This quote reminds me that I can do things that I wouldn&#8217;t otherwise try.</p><p>These quotes are not only instructive, but inspiring as well. What lessons might you learn from the quotes and the interviewees? And, in what ways might you use them?</p><p>Let&#8217;s keep the conversation flowing, please comment!</p><div
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