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Avil Beckford, Chief Invisible Mentor, is a writer, researcher and the published author of Tales of People Who Get It and its companion workbook, Journey to Getting It. Through this blog, she uses books, interviews, articles and much more to mentor professionals, taking them to the next stage of their life. The Invisible Mentor Blog changes the way people look at mentoring.
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Another 10 Quotes to Inspire and Why


There are many lessons around us, if we but take the time to BE instead of DO. Many of these lessons we can learn from successful people, many who are further along the path that we are traveling, or have already completed the journey.

Have you ever wondered what makes a highly accomplished individual tick? I have! I have also wondered what motivates them and how they stay motivated. Over the past five years, I have interviewed over a hundred successful people, and one of the many questions that I ask them is “What is your favorite quotation and why?”

These individuals love a good quote, and they have that special one which resonates with them down to their core. They often use that quote for inspiration, and have it in plain sight where they can readily see it. One individual indicated that he has been using the same quote for inspiration for over 20 years. Quotes are very important to these people and serve many functions in their lives.

Over the years I have learned from these very successful interviewees, and I would like to share some of what I have learned with you. I have culled 10 powerful quotes, and have also included the reasons why they resonate with the interviewees.

After you have read the quotes, you will better understand these people, and I am sure you will agree that the quotes will also add a touch of brilliance to your communications.

Stephanie MacKendrick’s Favorite Quote and Why

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.” Margaret Meade

The quote says that change can happen from every one of us, from small groups. It doesn’t have to be a big project, a big organization with a big mission or mandate. We can all contribute to changing.

Maria Nemeth’s Favorite Quote and Why

“Miracles rest not so much upon healing power coming suddenly near us from afar, but upon our perceptions being made finer, so that for the moment our eyes can see and our ears can hear what has been there around us always.” Willa Cather

It’s a wonderful quote about miracles. People think that miracles are things that happen to us suddenly from on high. I like this quote because it’s hopeful, it says that I do not have to do anything extraordinary. All I need to do is wake up and see what’s been here waiting for me all the time.

Jim Rohn‘s Favorite Quote and Why

“Nothing can resist a human will that will stake even its existence on the extent of its purpose.” Benjamin Disraeli

This quote challenges the human spirit to ultimate possibility – give it all you’ve got. Become all you were designed to become. It simply means do or die.

Suzanne Gibson’s Favorite Quote and Why

“What stirs the mind or touches the heart, will undoubtedly move the feet.” Donald Murphy

I feel an affinity to the quote because I am overwhelmed by all that’s going on in the world, and I often wonder what I can do as one person. This quote tells me that if we can inspire others and feed their hearts and stimulate their minds we can motivate action for positive change.

Gail Blanke’s Favorite Quote and Why

“There is no way it is, there is only the way you say it is. The universe hasn’t made up its mind about you. It only knows what you show it today. You are the Inventor; your life is the invention. You get to make it up, so make it up good.” Gail Blanke, Between Trapezes

This is my favorite quote because I’m passionate about persuading people that they get to decide how good their life will be!

Gabriel Draven’s Favorite Quote and Why

“To succeed in life, you need two things: ignorance and confidence.” Mark Twain

“There are two things you need for success: courage and ignorance.” Gabriel Draven (Inspired by Mark Twain)

This modified quote has kept on coming back to me over the past couple of years, and it’s pretty dead on.

Claire Hoy’s Favorite Quotes and Why

“Worrying about something is like paying interest on a debt that you don’t even know if you owe.” Mark Twain

“It ain’t over till it’s over.” Yogi Berra

I view both quotes as great life lessons. In Mark Twain’s case he is saying that if you are going around and worrying and fretting how badly something is going to turn out, almost all the time it never turns out as badly as you perceived. In Berra’s case, if you don’t throw up your hands when things go wrong, but think it ain’t over and that you still have a chance, anything is possible.

Amelia Kassel’s Favorite Quote and Why

“There is nothing to fear but fear itself.” Franklin D. Roosevelt

It is so easy to feel fear when you are starting a business or taking risks. In life, you face many situations where it’s easy to feel fearful. This quote reminds me that I can do things that I wouldn’t otherwise try.

These quotes are not only instructive, but inspiring as well. What lessons might you learn from the quotes and the interviewees? And, in what ways might you use them?

Let’s keep the conversation flowing, please comment!

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Should You Write That One Book?


I have often heard that each of us has at least one book inside of us, just waiting to bust loose, what is your one book? Each of us knows something that others don’t, is it your obligation to share it? What are your thoughts?

A psychic once told me that I have at least 10 books to write. I have written Tales of People Who Get It and there is an accompanying workbook Journey to Getting It, does that count as two books or is that one? It took me 4 1/2 years to write Tales of People Who Get It, what are my chances of writing the 10 books at that rate, if I listen to the psychic?

Writing a book is an investment of your time, and most people will never devote the time to actually write their one book. How do the benefits of writing a book stack up to the costs?

A few years ago I asked some authors, how writing a book help their businesses. Here are the responses.

Andrea Nierenberg, “The Queen of Networking” and the author of Nonstop Networking: How to Improve Your Life, Luck, and Career, Million Dollar Networking: The Sure Way To Find, Keep And Grow Your Business, and Savvy Networking: 118 Fast & Effective Tips for Business Success responded “It is very easy, my books have simply been the best calling cards I could ever ask for, I give away a ‘book a day’ and it has tripled my business.”

Heather Resnick, author of Women Reworked Empowering Women in Employment Transition responded, “Writing a book is my business! Generally speaking though, writing a book makes you an “Authority” in the eyes of the public. It opens doors for speaking engagements and people are genuinely impressed that you have actually written a book, knowing the amount of research/time involved. Books are regarded with esteem!”

According to Gail Blanke, “First, Between Trapezes: Flying into a New Life with the Greatest of Ease (as with Wildest Dreams and Taking Control of Your Life and [Throw Out Fifty Things: Clear the Clutter, Find Your Life]) provided a marketing platform for my business. Books describe your point of view and what makes you unique and provide the media with much needed angles and content for their particular communications vehicles. Second, potential clients and customers can access you through your writing and are motivated to buy whatever product or service you’re selling. Finally, it’s close to impossible to make money (other than recovering your costs) from a book. That’s not the reason to write them. In addition to the exposure they provide, disciplining yourself and refining your message are invaluable. You learn a lot about yourself from writing a book. And that can be priceless.”

Chris Widener author of The Art of Influence: Persuading Others Begins With You, Four Seasons, The Angel Within, and co-author of Twelve Pillars, had this to say, “It has been the best promotional tool, business card, advertising I could do!”

Will you write your one book? Do the benefits outlined above match the time investment? Let’s keep the conversation going, please comment.

Note: The links for the books are affiliate links.

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