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I have often heard that each of us has at least one book inside of us, just waiting to bust loose, what is your one book? Each of us knows something that others don’t, is it your obligation to share it? What are your thoughts?

A psychic once told me that I have at least 10 books to write. I have written Tales of People Who Get It and there is an accompanying workbook Journey to Getting It, does that count as two books or is that one? It took me 4 1/2 years to write Tales of People Who Get It, what are my chances of writing the 10 books at that rate, if I listen to the psychic?

Writing a book is an investment of your time, and most people will never devote the time to actually write their one book. How do the benefits of writing a book stack up to the costs?

A few years ago I asked some authors, how writing a book help their businesses. Here are the responses.

Andrea Nierenberg, “The Queen of Networking” and the author of Nonstop Networking: How to Improve Your Life, Luck, and Career, Million Dollar Networking: The Sure Way To Find, Keep And Grow Your Business, and Savvy Networking: 118 Fast & Effective Tips for Business Success responded “It is very easy, my books have simply been the best calling cards I could ever ask for, I give away a ‘book a day’ and it has tripled my business.”

Heather Resnick, author of Women Reworked Empowering Women in Employment Transition responded, “Writing a book is my business! Generally speaking though, writing a book makes you an “Authority” in the eyes of the public. It opens doors for speaking engagements and people are genuinely impressed that you have actually written a book, knowing the amount of research/time involved. Books are regarded with esteem!”

According to Gail Blanke, “First, Between Trapezes: Flying into a New Life with the Greatest of Ease (as with Wildest Dreams and Taking Control of Your Life and [Throw Out Fifty Things: Clear the Clutter, Find Your Life]) provided a marketing platform for my business. Books describe your point of view and what makes you unique and provide the media with much needed angles and content for their particular communications vehicles. Second, potential clients and customers can access you through your writing and are motivated to buy whatever product or service you’re selling. Finally, it’s close to impossible to make money (other than recovering your costs) from a book. That’s not the reason to write them. In addition to the exposure they provide, disciplining yourself and refining your message are invaluable. You learn a lot about yourself from writing a book. And that can be priceless.”

Chris Widener author of The Art of Influence: Persuading Others Begins With You, Four Seasons, The Angel Within, and co-author of Twelve Pillars, had this to say, “It has been the best promotional tool, business card, advertising I could do!”

Will you write your one book? Do the benefits outlined above match the time investment? Let’s keep the conversation going, please comment.

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The Angel Inside is a fun, yet thoughtful book that you can read in about an hour. This book is in the form of a fable, which makes it very easy to read. While reading The Angel Inside, I was processing the information presented and looking at ways to relate it to my life. The book is about finding that person of power and beauty, which is within every one of us.

The book starts off with a very disillusioned 30-year old Tom Cook, who travels from the US to Europe to find himself – to look for a new direction for his life. Back in the US, Tom was living an unfulfilled life. He was working in a job which he hated, trying to make his father proud of him. He was desperately trying to please his father.

The day before his return to the US, he is sitting on a bench in Florence feeling forlorned because he hasn’t found what he was searching for. A stranger, who looks to be in his seventies, and much later revealed as Mr. Bounarroti, enters his life and changes it forever. This stranger parachutes into Tom’s life and uses sculpting and Michelangelo‘s David – Il Gigante to teach him lessons in life and help him to find his way.

The stranger takes Tom to the Galleria dell’ Accademia to view Michelangelo’s sculpture of David. Tom learns the following life lessons:

1. Find the angel inside you
2. Follow your own passion
3. Be confident in your strength
4. Pay attention to details, you’ll discover beauty
5. Your hands can create what your mind conceives
6. Plan and prepare
7. Every accomplishment starts with one swift action
8. Embrace the stages of chipping, sculpting, sanding and polishing
9. Be content because success sometimes takes years
10. No one starts with the Sistine Chapel (Small successes lead to greater successes

Chris Widener uses sculpting as a metaphor for life in his fable. To expand on lesson eight, first, you have to chip away or get rid of what doesn’t work in your life. Second you have to sculpt or mold your life the way you want it to be. Third, adversity and negative circumstances often sand away the rough spots in our lives, which strengthen us and allow us to grow. And fourth, polishing allows our power and beauty to shine through.

The stranger instructs Tom and tells him “The tools of a sculptor are few, but the tools for sculpting a life are many. We are a product of the things that we allow to shape and influence our lives. Everything that we interact with will shape and mold whom we become. This includes both what we choose to involve ourselves with as well as what we choose to not involve ourselves with… Our business associates and our friends are people who we can choose at will. We should choose these people wisely for what they will help us become.”

Five Great Ideas

1. People often have so much invested in what they are currently doing that they cannot start to live and fulfill their dreams
2. Fear often prevents us from taking the first step
3. Books give us the ability to converse with the author
4. Have a network of people around us who act as a springboard to a better life
5. Most people cannot create or accomplish great work that’s lasting until they have gone through the process of growing and learning from their experience

I recommend The Angel Inside

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