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Booked on Tuesday: Musings of Book Addict – Lessons I Learned in 2011


By the end of 2011, I would have read 200 books for the year. I have always been a voracious reader, but this year I have outdone myself. Despite this, I still feel like a slacker because quite a few people who I know are averaging between four to five books each week. I didn’t read as many classics as I’d like. I find that I struggle to read some of the classics because the story unfolds so slowly.

I try to read books from many genres, and even if it’s fiction, I find that I always take away a lesson or two. I have also noticed that some of the same themes emerging, and I’d like to share them with you.

  1. Persistence pays.
  2. Where you start out in life does not determine where you’ll end up.
  3. Forgive those who hurt you.
  4. Let go of anger.
  5. You can accomplish a lot more than you think.
  6. Take time to enjoy life, the journey is everything.
  7. Spend time with family and friends.
  8. When others criticize you, instead of immediately being defensive, honestly ask yourself if there is merit to the criticism. If there is, immediately make the changes.
  9. Emulate the good qualities you admire in others and check yourself for their bad ones.
  10. Things always take a longer to accomplish than you first thought.
  11. You accomplish a lot more when you collaborate with people whose skills complement yours.
  12. Fall down seven times get up eight.

I’d like to leave you with a quote by Charles Wesley and John Wesley, and a poem by Portia Nelson to reflect on.

“Do all the good you can,

By all the means you can,

In all the ways you can,

In all the places you can,

At all the times you can

To all the people you can

As long as ever you can!”

By Charles and John Wesley

Autobiography in Five Short Chapters

Chapter 1

I walk down the street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.

I fall in.

I am lost … I am helpless.

It isn’t my fault.

It takes forever to find a way out.

Chapter 2

I walk down the same street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.

I pretend I don’t see it.

I fall in again.

I can’t believe I am in the same place.

But it isn’t my fault.

It still takes a long time to get out.

Chapter 3

I walk down the same street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.

I see it is there.

I still fall in … it’s a habit.

My eyes are open.

I know where I am.

It is my fault.

I get out immediately.

Chapter 4

I walk down the same street.

There is a deep hole in the sidewalk.

I walk around it.

Chapter 5

I walk down another street.

~ Portia Nelson ~

(There’s a Hole in My Sidewalk)

 

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5 Responses to “Booked on Tuesday: Musings of Book Addict – Lessons I Learned in 2011”

  • mireille says:

    So true Avil especially #10 – Things always take a longer to accomplish than you first thought.

    Have a very Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.

    Looking forward to reading what you write in 2012

    Mireille

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