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Avil Beckford is founder of Ambeck Enterprise, The Invisible Mentor and Readers are Leaders. I am an expert interviewer, writer, researcher and the published author of Tales of People Who Get It and its companion workbook, Journey to Getting It. I founded The Invisible Mentor, a non-traditional mentoring program where professionals learn from, and are mentored by the experiences of others, in the form of expert interviews with highly successful people, wisdom of life profiles of very wise people who lived before us, and SummaReviews which are hybrid book summaries and book reviews.
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The Invisible Mentor Annual Review: A Year of Planting Seeds


I have been looking back and reflecting on 2009 to determine how far I have traveled. And, I wanted to check in to see if I have accomplished my goals for the Invisible Mentor Blog.

I started blogging in March 2009, so I have been blogging for nine months. I am amazed at how much content I have produced. I promised  my readers that I would blog at least four times each week and I have honored that commitment. Other promises include interviewing highly successful people and reviewing books off the beaten track. I have been pretty good with the interviews, but I have to develop a plan to review books off the beaten track. I have to create a reading plan.

So for the next year, I will do a better job of bringing books that you wouldn’t think of reading, but need to know about. This is an education blog, so it has to be content rich. I am also testing my belief that there is nothing new under the sun, and we can use some of yesterday’s ideas to solve today’s problems. What are your thoughts?

If there is specific content that you’d like to see, please leave a comment for me in the comment box. As I started to write this post I had the epiphany that this year was a year of planting seeds. Because of the law of nature, I have to plant the seeds, water and nurture them before I can harvest. I hope that you will continue on this journey with me.

Based on the interviews I have conducted and books I have read, here are some lessons learned and some great ideas.

15 Great Ideas

  1. Know thyself!
  2. Trust yourself!
  3. When undertaking any endeavour, act as if it were impossible to fail
  4. Those who reach success are likely to be constant workers
  5. When you are participating in a conversation, you need to understand not only what is said, but also what is not said. You also need to understand what the people involved are thinking and feeling but not saying to each other
  6. In the end, our lives will be judged not by the things that we began, but by the things that our effort and resolve brought to a successful conclusion
  7. Failure is not a single, cataclysmic event – it is nothing more than a few errors in judgment repeated everyday
  8. The past is a learning memory. The future is a yearning goal. The present is the only moment that exists. You can stretch that moment out forever if you are constantly aware of every now
  9. Anything can be practiced. A guitar piece to a positive way of life. Practice is simply concentrating on a single action or idea until it no longer exists in your conscious mind
  10. Make life meaningful by doing work that you are passionate about. Live each day as if it were your last
  11. Everyone wants to be liked, appreciated and wanted. People also want to feel like they are a part of something bigger than themselves
  12. We are our brother’s keeper
  13. What would happen if we let others know that we believed in them?
  14. Each of us is right in the middle of our own Acres of Diamonds, if only we would realize it and develop the ground we are standing on before charging off in search of greener pastures
  15. Opportunity does not just come along – it is there all the time – we just have to see it

15 Life Lessons Learned

  1. Be yourself!
  2. Always listen
  3. Forgiveness is always easier than resentment—and healthier
  4. Nobody is free from insecurity or dysfunctions. Some are just better at hiding it.
  5. Life doesn’t last forever so speak the truth
  6. Feel the fear and do it anyway
  7. Help people
  8. Take care of your family
  9. It is possible to find solutions for even the most intractable problems–by listening, by leading with a fair and transparent approach, by being open to new ideas and ways of handling situations, and by affirming people as often as possible
  10. Always do what needs to be done
  11. Be likable
  12. Be understanding toward others
  13. It’s about people and relationships
  14. Success is never about money
  15. Persistence pays!

What are some great ideas that you have discovered and what are some life lessons that you have learned so far?

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3 Responses to “The Invisible Mentor Annual Review: A Year of Planting Seeds”

  • Hi Avil,

    Your lessons learned and ideas are very interesting and useful for me:) In particular I like the one about “opportunities” and “participating in conversation”. Thank you for that.

    As for my lessons and thoughts… I keep repeating the words of Jack Canfield “some will, some won’t, so what, someone’s waiting”.

    Sometimes it is really hard to persistently keep doing something when there are obstacles on the way but when I affirmate words mentioned above it is easier:)

    Best wishes

    • Avil Beckford says:

      Justyna,

      Yes it’s very difficult to be consistent especially when there are so many obstacles in the way. What I sometimes do is take a break for just a bit and then start again. It’s amazing what we can learn from others when we listen and pay attention. Avil

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